tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post5575945468609883273..comments2023-08-23T05:57:30.738-05:00Comments on Motherhood: My Crazy Life: Mourning The Loss of My UterusSabrinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681023354474064779noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post-80129681783449669132012-08-25T04:00:45.421-05:002012-08-25T04:00:45.421-05:00Oh wow this is my story!!!! But I'm going thro...Oh wow this is my story!!!! But I'm going through it now. I have 4 children and pregnant with 5th. I'm 21 weeks diagnosed with placenta previa and accreta so assumed a hysterectomy will be done.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post-88939041192993532032011-03-01T14:23:29.036-06:002011-03-01T14:23:29.036-06:00Sabrina I just wanted to add that I think you are ...Sabrina I just wanted to add that I think you are totally justified in the feelings you're having. I won't say I understand everything you're feeling but I do understand how you feel about the hysterectomy. When I had to have a emergency hysterectomy with the twins c-section I didn't really have time to let it sink in till a few weeks later. I became really depressed because I didn't feel like a complete woman because part of me was taken out. <br /><br />I can remember crying whenever I thought about the fact that we could no longer have kids. Even though we had agreed 3 kids was enough for us, just the fact that the decision on whether we would have more kids later down the road or not..was taken from me with the hysterectomy. What helped me was going online looking for a support group for women who have had a hysterectomy. <br />The twins just turned 3 in December and I no longer "mourn" the fact I had to have a hysterectomy..I look at the positive..no more periods!! LOL if you ever need to talk, you can find me on FB<br />GinnyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post-47383677652418347142011-02-28T20:09:01.807-06:002011-02-28T20:09:01.807-06:00I think that you are entitled to go through the gr...I think that you are entitled to go through the grieving process. You had so many worries going into the surgery that a hysterectomy seemed like a piece of cake considering some of the horrible options they threw at you.<br /><br />Grieve for a while! Be mad! Be sad! And when those feelings start to fade...the joy and thankful will come back. <br /><br />It was not the journey that you wanted but Gianna is here and perfectly healthy. You are here and perfectly healthy! That is two amazing miracles!! HUGS!Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679979266709849994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post-1867916446072522952011-02-26T15:36:30.125-06:002011-02-26T15:36:30.125-06:00Wanted to also mention...maybe you shoudl look for...Wanted to also mention...maybe you shoudl look for a post hystroctemy support group?Cindy @ Marriedtothemilitary {dot} nethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00273860930969894864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10506891.post-51265528341569546662011-02-26T15:35:34.514-06:002011-02-26T15:35:34.514-06:00(((hugs)))) I can only begin to imagine how hard t...(((hugs)))) I can only begin to imagine how hard this is for you. I am also sure that how you are feeling is 100% normal. You can not change things,but try and remember the good stuff. You and your baby are both alive and healrhy. Your kids have a Mom. <br /><br />I know none of that will never replace the child that you will never have, but they are what God wanted you to have.<br /><br />Please take time to feel what ever you need to feel. Punch a pillow yell, what ever makes you feel better. I am confident these feeling will lessen as time goes on, but don't be afariad to do what you need to until then.Cindy @ Marriedtothemilitary {dot} nethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00273860930969894864noreply@blogger.com